Notes

① I've already lost my mum, so I don't think I can stand losing him．我已经失去了妈妈，因此我认为我不能承受失去他(父亲)的痛苦了。

② I had judged her by her job and brushed her off as unimportant．我原来通过她的工作来判断并且把她列为不用理睬的(人)。

③ I shouldn't have been so selfish and self-centered．我不应该这么自私、以自我为中心。